Story of Us, The
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IMDB rating: 5.40 Plot: Two jilted lovers spend fifteen years of marriage together, only to find that they might no longer love each other. In this time they have two children and go through the various (dramatic and comical) events that take place in an average marriage. |
Actors: Willis Bruce,Matheson Tim,Poston Tom,Sandvig Jake,Boersma Casey,Boersma Dylan,Lerner Ken,Raider-Wexler Victor,Hague Albert,Drama,Comedy,Romance,
What to do with my girlfriend?
This is a long story, sorry but i have to explain myself well…
Ive been having trouble with a guy that is in love with my girlfriend, the thing is that this guy is her friend so she didn?t wanted to just put him away…
Ater 2 months of regular problems (since i live 4 hours away from her and see her twice a month and i get really frustrated knowing he can try to hit on her every time he wants) i started hearing things from my friends, her friends and even people i barely know…i got really sad at one point i decided to broke up with her…hardest decision in my life since i trully love her, after this she started to cry like i have never seen before saying that she doesnt want that, that she loves me (she demostrates that as i do) and that she doesnt want to loose me…
After this things were running normal, 1 week later the problem came up again but this time i ask her to put him away from us…she promised she would erase him from facebook, msn, and black pin…wich i tought she did…last night we decided to do something funny to confuse a friend, iw as going into her msn and she would go into mine…she was talking to me on her brothers email but told me to "wait a moment before i went in" i had her password but never logged in because i trust her but when i did i find that the guy is not even blocked…hes right there, but doesnt talk or do anything…wich i find REAAAALY HARD to beleive since the guy is persistent and always says "that hes in love" with her…
i cant think of anything else than that "wait a moment" was to tell him i was the one logging in to her msn…now im just really frustrated…i havent trust a woman since my first girlfriend hurted me…i thought i found a different woman so i blindly trusted her for all this time…
now to the question…
im finding out what is happening by my own means (i already know how i will)…this will take me around a week but, what should i do if i find out the worse?…should i give her another chance? she is treating me normal so im afraid i see this not as an act of "she needs something" wich i could forgive easily, but as an act of "this is normal for me" wich i wont forgive…she will keep doing it if this is the case…
i was thinking all this time to leave my career (big decision in my case) and go live at the same city…not with her tough but to be close to her…but now i cant do that knowing that "there could be something"…
*wow, this was longer than expected*
If she starts a relationship by lying, she will most probably continue in the same way. Dump her.
George | Feb 04, 2010
Talk to her seriously. Tell her that for your relationship to really work out, some trust issues need to be settled. Tell her that even though there is nothing going on with her and this friend of her, you really feel uncomfortable with it and that you’d prefer her to avoid the guy. Sure, she would say that you are being unfair but for the sake of your relationship, and if you mean more to her than this guy, she would try to compromise as this issue is really bugging you.If she loves you and really wants the whole thing to work out, she’ll give in.
Sarah | Feb 04, 2010
It does seem like she’s hiding something from you. If she promised to stay away from the guy then why the hell is he still on her msn friend list?
It’s best for you to leave her, take some distance from her. Tell her you need time to think over your relationship. Do not leave her right away or she might create another scene and you’d fall for her again.
See what it gives after a few months, if you keep hearing things from your friends whilst being away from her then it’s probably true, she’s cheating on you.
Relationships are based on trust, if you can’t trust her now will you be able to trust her in 5 years?
Breaking up can he harsh but I am sure you will get over it.
Good Luck
Katy | Feb 04, 2010
