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IMDB rating: 2.80 Plot: Durell and LeeJohn are best friends and bumbling petty criminals. When told they have one week to pay a $17,000 debt or Durell will lose his son, they come up with a desperate scheme to rob their neighborhood church. Instead, they end up spending the night in the presence of the Lord and are forced to deal with much more than they bargained for. |
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Is it wrong to get revenge when she cheated?
sorry had to ask again… not enough answers
Okay me and my gf were dating for 7 months. Periodically throughout the relationship I had a feeling she was cheating. Just randomly like one week every couple of months she would get distant and pretend she was mad about something. I never caught her or accused her. But one time I looked in her email and I found emails to her ex bf who is a doctor around the times when she was distant. these emails were begging him to get with her again and marry her. assuring him she was his gf only and not cheating on him with anyone.
I was upset. but i didnt break up with her bc in dec there was an email to him that said she no longer had feelings for him, etc. So everything was good from then to now. or so i thought. We broke up monday. And I discovered she had called him the day after the break up email to say she made a mistake. he wouldnt take her back. since then she has called and texted him to try to get back with him saying "no one compares to him", etc. So i found out she broke up with me bc he invited her to go to Cozumel with him on Wed-Sunday. So that is why she broke up with me.
yeah shes basically a gold digger. we are both 23 but the doctor is 37. and not attractive. oh and im not a loser or anything. im finishing my masters degree in may and i do some modeling/ acting whenever i get the opportunity.
My question is would it be wrong to tell the Doctor that she was cheating on him for the last few months of their relationship? and show him pictures, texts, emails, etc. as evidence? Or how do i get revenge? bc it really hurt me. I loved her a lot. The sad thing is I would probably take her back if she came clean and apologized.
Thank you 
Have you ever heard the expression, "sometimes in life, you have to take the high road". If you did and do love her as you say, you have to be the bigger and better person. I firmly believe in treating other people the way you would like to be treated; period; not how that treat you; period. What does that say about your character if you retaliate? How proud of yourself would your feel? If you love someone, you want them to be happy. My advice, let her be. Why would you want to be with someone you label as a golddigger when you yourself sound like a "catch"? Love yourself. Move on. Good luck.
MostestMeri | Feb 08, 2010
yes its wrong because where would it get ya? You say "you would take her back if she came clean"?…..Be honest with yourself thats what you really want…..If you take revenge now,it would be the point of no return…..She would have no desire to want to come clean or even talk to you……Just walk away and whatever happens happens……Que Sera Sera
bigpumpdaddy | Feb 08, 2010
Oh mate, sorry bout your ex.
Heres a few ideas:
You could schedule an appointment with the doctor and say you got Crabs or Herpes from his Girlfriend?
Take a crap on her lawn, and wipe her walls with it (South Park idea)
Damage her car?
Butter her floors, so she slips?
Just and idea
Chris12 | Feb 08, 2010
I would definitely tell/show the doctor. That was wrong of him.
Dukebasketball | Feb 08, 2010
So are you still with this girl? And dude this girl sounds so wrong for you or the doctor.
I dont understand how someone can be in a relationship with someone else when their heart lies for another person.
When you are in a relationship with someone, you would want that person to love you just as much as you love them.
She is also a liar. She lied to the doctor saying that she will not cheat and that she hasnt cheated when she has. And she has also lied to you.
She probably broke up with you because she was too hung up on that doctor.
I know i sound like i am judging her too much and i am sure she is a nice girl even though she has done things that are soo wrong, but i just dont look up to people who are deceiving and dishonest.
I need to it to break it to you but she is just not worth it. You sound like a nice guy, and you say she is a gold digger, and sure a doctor sounds like a good catch but so are you. I mean, you have your masters and all and you model. Just forget about her.
Infact forget about love for now. Just dont go back to her if she apologizes. Remember you want to be with someone who adores you just as much as you adore her. Thats what love is all about. Would you really want to be with someone who doesnt truly love you.
I think you should tell the doctor. Make sure to give him the evidence that she cheated.
Not to get revenge on her but just to make sure that someone will not be deceived by her just like you have.
And to make sure that he doesnt end up with someone who doesnt really love him. Because if she loved him she wouldnt have lied.
Also remember not to get back with her. i needa break it to you, she doesnt love you.
And you really deserve someone better. And you wil find someone better.
This thing you have with her doesnt sound like love at all.
Good luck
yellowcake | Feb 08, 2010
